Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Must Watch! Sita Singing the Blues

Every once in a while there comes a movie that you just can’t stop raving about. It’s been too long since I’ve wanted to rave about anything.  

Sita Sings the Blues by Nina Paley (available on Youtube)  is one show that has got me excited. For once.

It made me laugh, gawk at the graphics, nod in agreement and connect with other thots put forth. Though I’ve never been crazy about “the blues”, the music is kinda cool.

Christmas Carol that was released here in Malaysia recently, pales in comparison. That was like having bread and butter, whereas Sita Sings the Blues is more of a fantasy feast.

Devout Hindus will immediately be able to link Sita to that lovey-dovey couple - Sita and Rama from the Ramayana. Having said that, I also know that most of the Hindus that I know are only familiar with the bare outline of the epic. Why read a version with all the details when you can grasp the basics from a summarized version in 10 minutes or less?

Today’s emphasis is constantly on Rama (the really good  guy) defeating Ravana (the bad dude from your first nightmare) who had abducted his wife (Sita, the beautiful one who had sacrificed all to live in the forest with hubby). This is usually linked up to Deepavali, the festival that marks Ravana’s defeat with traditional clay lamps.

I admit that my reading of Hindu related material is somewhat limited. I knew that Rama had doubted Sita’s “virtue”, forcing her to take on a stringent test involving fire. What I didn’t know (shame on me) was that
he had dumped her much later even though she had passed the fire test. There’s no pleasing some people!

All this was done to keep up his good image, making her suffer unnecessarily once again in the forest for donkey years. Not unlike some cold blooded politicians / public figures who want to retain their image. Did I just spoil the show for you by telling you what’s going to happen? Tough! Well, there is something else that I won't tell you.

Nina Paley’ who put the whole show together, says in an interview
“The aspect of the story that I focus on is the relationship between Sita and Rama, who are gods incarnated as human beings, and even they can't make their marriage work [laughs].”


When I watched it, a couple of things crossed my mind.

How over the years not many (at least not in my corner of the world) have highlighted Sita’s struggles. Is it because till today most of the Indian productions (i.e. those made in India) are dominated by men, who would not be too keen on highlighting this aspect? Perhaps they are like Rama in ways than they would not care to admit.

Or is it the audience who doesn’t want to have that image of Sita and Rama as the perfect couple being marred.

Nina Paley does have a point. If the Gods (reincarnated) can’t make their marriage work, then who can?

Okay, if you’re bored with the issues raised, don’t trouble your pretty little head with them. Just watch it cos it’s a whole lot of fun.

Oh yeah, one more thing.

If you’re devout Hindu, try not to take some of the interpretations of the Ramayana and the characters in it to heart. Relax, it’s just one person’s interpretations.

Have fun singing the blues with Sita!

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Totally unhappy with AIA’s breakdown services

Drivers, especially ladies – if you have been lulled into feeling safe with a breakdown service number on your windshield, read on.


When I renewed my car insurance with AIA last December, I was relieved that it came with breakdown services. I thought that it was something that I could depend totally on.

Unfortunately, I learnt that this is not necessarily true.

My battery died on me at 9.30 pm on Friday 13th out in SS15, Subang. Filled with pure panic, my initial reaction was to go back to the room where I had attended a talk to get help. Then I remembered the number for AIA’s breakdown services on my windshield and sighed in relief.

When I gave my car registration number to the lady on the line, she said it was not in the system. Huh? Then, get this, she asked me for my policy number. Am I supposed to be driving around armed with my car insurance policy number? Never knew that & wish someone had told me about it!

I was told to pay RM40 to the guy who would come out to jumpstart my car; extra if it involved paying for a new battery. Which worried me immensely as I did not have a lot of cash on me. As I was feeling quite terrified to be stranded out on the street at night (okay, I could have got home but i didn't want to leave my beloved old car there), I quickly agreed to the RM40. At that point there was no talk of reimbursement.

I have no problems with the actual service, as the guy was prompt and did the job well.

When I got home I called to give the same lady my policy number to be told that - yes, I am covered and that she would get the guy to return the money to me. So, why wasn’t my details in the computer system? Her rather defensive answer was something along the lines of “it has not been updated”!

A 11 month policy, for which I had already received a renewal notice, had not been updated? What were they waiting for?

What really bothered me was: what if it was something more serious and I had required urgent help in the middle of the night in a more remote area? What would AIA had done without my policy number in such a situation? Would I have been told to fork out a fat sum on the spot for urgent help? The whole experience had been unnerving.

These competing car insurance providers constantly try to up one another on services provided, leaving me wondering who is monitoring these "extra services" they provide.

Plus, I need to renew my car insurance. Anyone got any recommendations?

Totally unhappy with AIA’s breakdown services

Drivers, especially ladies – if you have been lulled into feeling safe with a breakdown service number on your windshield, read on.


When I renewed my car insurance with AIA last December, I was relieved that it came with breakdown services. I thought that it was something that I could depend totally on.

Unfortunately, I learnt that this is not necessarily true.

My battery died on me at 9.30 pm on Friday 13th out in SS15, Subang. Filled with pure panic, my initial reaction was to go back to the room where I had attended a talk to get help. Then I remembered the number for AIA’s breakdown services on my windshield and sighed in relief.

When I gave my car registration number to the lady on the line, she said it was not in the system. Huh? Then, get this, she asked me for my policy number. Am I supposed to be driving around armed with my car insurance policy number? Never knew that & wish someone had told me about it!

I was told to pay RM40 to the guy who would come out to jumpstart my car; extra if it involved paying for a new battery. Which worried me immensely as I did not have a lot of cash on me. As I was feeling quite terrified to be stranded out on the street at night (okay, I could have got home but i didn't want to leave my beloved old car there), I quickly agreed to the RM40. At that point there was no talk of reimbursement.

I have no problems with the actual service, as the guy was prompt and did the job well.

When I got home I called to give the same lady my policy number to be told that - yes, I am covered and that she would get the guy to return the money to me. So, why wasn’t my details in the computer system? Her rather defensive answer was something along the lines of “it has not been updated”!

A 11 month policy, for which I had already received a renewal notice, had not been updated? What were they waiting for?

What really bothered me was: what if it was something more serious and I had required urgent help in the middle of the night in a more remote area? What would AIA had done without my policy number in such a situation? Would I have been told to fork out a fat sum on the spot for urgent help? The whole experience had been unnerving.

These competing car insurance providers constantly try to up one another on services provided, leaving me wondering who is monitoring these "extra services" they provide.

Plus, I need to renew my car insurance. Anyone got any recommendations?